



Often an outsider can bring out a person's gifts. L-- and S-- both shone in Karoline and Andrea's warm presence. Both are gifted teachers who felt quite comfortable relating to children in a very personable way. Karoline encouraged L-- to think and act on her creative instincts, reading a beautiful picture book with her, embarking on imaginary journeys together to Beijing and Hong Kong, and taking real photos of the zoo outside her window. Andrea built her independence, enjoying time together without Mom around either on walks or just talking in her room.I enjoyed their place in our home as well. Tonight the dinner table felt empty and the after-bedtime home feels too quiet. Karoline and I met in Sunday School in 4th grade, and were best friends by 7th grade. We shared our dreams, our humiliations, our youth group and our imaginations. We visited each other during college. She stood next to me at my wedding, and we've stood together at friends' weddings since. And this week I realized how much I've missed her.
No doubt the best friends are those with whom a gap of time has no impact. It doesn't matter how many days, months or years since we last spoke. I can share as much with her now as I could in 7th grade - in fact, surely more. And what a blessing to live so far away that we are forced to spend a week together if any time at all.
1 comment:
Not to be too critical of L--'s work, but I don't see any zoo animals in any of those pictures! :)
Also, we hope you're doing well.
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